tm4m
tm4m is a group for trans men who play with men (or want to...) and the men who play with us. Our goal is to provide information, education and support to trans men who have sex with men. We host monthly educational workshops.

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Events
June 23, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night: Pride Edition
Kick Pride Weekend off with a bang. Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by June 21st to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more

July 14, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night
Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by July 12th to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more.

July 28, 2016 7pm-9pm Community Forum
Come and join us at A&PI Wellness at 730 Polk Street, for an informal panel with Dr. Chen about bottom surgery. Dr. Chen is Dr. Crane’s new staff surgeon who does phalloplasty; they’ll do a presentation followed by a Q&A with men who have gone through bottom surgery.

August 11, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night
Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by August 9th to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more.

August 25, 2016 7pm-9pm- Workshop Night
What Sex Ed Skips: A Sexual Health Workshop. Details TBD

September 8, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night
Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by September 6th to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more.

September 22, 2016 7pm-9pm Workshop Night
Let’s Get Knotty: A BDSM Workshop. Details TBD

October 13, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night
Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by October 11th to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more.

October 27, 2016 7pm-9pm Workshop Night
How Not To Be Rude When You Are Nude: A sex club etiquette workshop. Details TBD

November 10, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night
Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by November 8th to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more.

December 8, 2016- 7pm- Cruising Night
Come steam and cruise with us, for all types of guys into all types of guys (tm4tm, m4m, tm4m, m4tm). Open to all 18+ guys folks with picture ID. Free entry to anyone who RSVPs by December 6th to tm4msf@gmail.com; otherwise normal club fees apply: $24 for a day pass or a membership for a few dollars more.

All events take place at Eros, The Center for Safe Sex (2051 Market St, SF) unless otherwise noted.
Volunteer Opportunities
We are always looking for support. Please contact Niko if interested in volunteering.

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Why we are doing this work

tm4m grew out of community concern for a lack of resources for trans men who play with men. Trans men are not always accepted in gay male spaces and as gay, bisexual or queer men, we don’t always fit in to trans spaces. The result is that some trans men feel isolated or disconnected. It has also been difficult for us to get accurate and tailored information about sexual health and HIV risk. tm4m addresses these gaps by working to build community and create resources for information sharing and education.

How you can get involved

We put on events for trans guys who play with guys (and the guys who play with us) at Eros, The Center for Safe Sex (2051 Market Street, SF, CA MAP). tm4m "Cruising Night" is always every 2nd Thursday of the month at 7pm. Our other events vary from structured workshops with speakers and activities to more informal discussion and support groups. We also do events and outreach, so keep an eye on our Facebook to see where to find tm4m around San Francisco next. Events are open to all unless otherwise specified.

Contact

Niko Kowell
E-mail: tm4msf@gmail.com

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